10/30/2017 1 Comment Michelle McClafferty Shares.....Something People Don't Know About Her... I spent the first 15 years of my working career traveling all over the country to horse shows with a trailer full of cute ponies and their riders. It was the birth of my daughter that made me decide to give up my farm and become a doula! - Michelle A Musician or Band She Has Seen... I took my daughter to the American Idol concert in 2008! The series started the year she was born... this was her first concert and holds great memories. - Michelle Hobby - Free Time
I enjoy getting together with friends and doing something team oriented that we enjoy. Doing 5Ks to support cancer research seems to be at the top of the list this year. - Michelle
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10/26/2017 1 Comment My Scar StoryTen years ago there was a birth - it was the birth of a son, a mother, a father, a family, and of a calling. But it wasn't easy and it left scars both seen and unseen.
It was a beautiful, warm fall morning in New England when I finally went into labor. I was surrounded with loving support and I felt strong as I experienced labor and the birth of my son. We became parents and I realized my desire to become a doula all in the same experience. That day was perfect in my mind. The next day was hard. Earth shattering hard. Our son was not OK and we had to take him to the emergency room since we had already been discharged and gone home. They soon discovered he would need to have surgery and we were put in an ambulance to get him to Boston Children's Hospital NICU. I could write a book on the NICU experience alone but will try to summarize it here - being there and having to be there creates an emotional wound as you cry, worry, feel helpless and fearful. My son's scars were physical and ours were deep inward emotional... This was just the beginning of all the tests, appointments, surgeries, doctors, and information. Through each challenge we hurt a little, we grew a little, and as the scars healed we realized how strong we truly were. I survived. We survived. And through the scars that shaped our story we grew and we thrived. Today he is strong, empathetic, and brave. Today I am a stronger mother and a better doula for families going through hard times. As a doula I share in these big, hard, beautiful, sometimes painful life experiences that grow and shape mothers, fathers, and families. I step into these stories and witness their strength and together we survive. -Written by Johanna Wright and also shared on her blog 10/15/2017 3 Comments Joanne Shares...Joanne shares:
A favorite childhood memory: As soon as I read this prompt a specific memory came to mind. And, the poem I had written about it. I hope you enjoy it. When the shoe flies On a cool summer evening when I was shorter, by far, than the corn growing behind my house I longed so hard to run in that field that I hurled a reason – my shoe - right over the fence and called out to my mother that I had good cause to roam through the wild green joining my brothers I raced through fertile space the gentle rains that had brushed away day’s heat left behind an oozy mud that squished deliciously between my bare toes until sun was set we breathed free growing taller right alongside the stalks my shoe, over time, must have been plowed under and slowly returned to earth at least it was never returned to my foot 1.30.2008 Something most people don’t know about me: I was a fearless swimmer when I was young. I would swim across a lake on my own or out beyond the breakers in the ocean. My first experience in the sea was at Jones Beach in New York. I was 5, and my dad tossed me into a wave heading to shore. His timing wasn’t great. I tumbled my way in with that wave, my nose and throat filling with salty water. As soon as I coughed it out, I ran back in for another toss. We were visiting my grandparents that day and were soon headed back to the landlocked Midwest where lake waters would have to suffice. Since my mid-20’s, I have lived within a few hours of the ocean. However, I no longer swim beyond the breakers. One of my favorite musicians: Phoebe Snow. What a voice! I also like remembering that my brother, George, was the person who invited me to listen to her for the first time. Love Makes A Woman is one of her best. “Diamonds and pearls, I’ve had enough But, I feel so much better dressed in love” 10/8/2017 1 Comment Julie's Recipe PickChickpea Rice Soup With A Little Kale By Isa ChandraWhen Comes To Yummy Vegan Soups, Isa Chandra Recipes Are The Best! She does not skimp on flavor and fresh ingredients. In this particular soup it's you won't miss dairy at all, as it is so creamy. She has many yummy soups to try as we move into the colder months and other great dishes, check out her website www.isachandra.com. Hope you enjoy this protein packed dish thanks to the chickpeas and cashew cream, plus trace minerals and vitamins thanks to that lovely Kale. If you don't have a favorite broth I suggest you use the broth she recommends, very flavorful. Enjoy! ~ Chickpea Rice Soup With A Little Kale By Isa Chandra~ Directions: ~ I used red rice here, but you can use whatever you like. Just note that brown rice will have a longer cooking time, so plan accordingly.~ A good strong broth is essential for flavor here. I recommend Better Than Boullion, No Chicken flavor if you can get your hands on it. So worth it! Especially in the winter months when you might not have any homemade. ~ If — for whatever reason — you don’t want to use cashew cream, unsweetened plain almond or soy milk will work. It doesn’t get as creamy, but it’s still yummy! Just please double and triple check that it’s unsweetened, or it’ll be awkward tasting. 3/4 cup cashews, soaked in water for 2 hours or overnight 2 tablespoons olive oil1 medium yellow onion, thinly sliced 3 cloves garlic, minced 1 teaspoon dried rosemary 3/4 teaspoon dried thyme 1 teaspoon salt Fresh black pepper 3/4 cup rice, rinsed (see note about rice) 3 ribs celery, thinly sliced 1 cup carrots, diced chunky 5 cups vegetable broth 1 24 oz can chickpeas, drained and rinsed (about 3 cups) 4 cups chopped kale Thinly sliced green onion, for garnish Drain the cashews and place them in a blender with one cup of fresh water. Blend until completely smooth, scraping the sides of the food processor with a spatula occasionally to make sure you get everything. This could 1 to 5 minutes depending on the strength of your blender. Preheat a stock pot over medium heat. Saute onion in olive oil with a pinch of salt for about 5 minutes, until translucent. Add garlic, rosemary, thyme, salt and pepper and saute a minute more. Add rice, celery and carrots and then pour in the broth. Cover and bring to a boil. Once boiling, bring down to a simmer, add the chickpeas, and let cook for about 15 more minutes, until rice is cooked and carrots are tender. Add the cashew cream and kale, and simmer until kale is wilted, 3 to 5 more minutes. You may need to add water to thin the soup if it seems too thick. Taste for salt and seasonings and let sit for 10 minutes or so to allow the flavors to marry. Serve topped with green onions. It thickens as it cools, so if you have leftovers, just thin with a little water when you reheat. http://www.isachandra.com Julie Dumas on using the collective...Joanne was recommended to us by our childbirth educator, and it turned out to be a great fit for us- both times! It was also very convenient to use the services of her back-up doulas- Michelle for newborn photography, and Julie for placenta encapsulation. We appreciated the “one-stop shopping” for the services that many parents who seek doula care might also be interested in. It was a seamless, satisfying experience. It went so well after our first birth that we used the same team the second time around! Michelle is so talented- we treasure the photos she has taken of both of our boys, as do our families. Working with Julie’s team of placenta encapsulation specialists has also been fabulous, and easy to coordinate pick-up! She and Joanne have great communication skills and worked together to make sure our placenta was handled appropriately, while we focused on meeting our baby. The group is awesome and highly recommended!
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